Although one can have the desire to be with someone who is right for them, it doesn’t mean that this will take place. One could find that they have the tendency to end up with people who they are not really compatible with.
Alternatively, one could have been with a number of people who were abusive, and this is going to be even worse. This person might be only too happy to end up with people who they are not compatible with.
A Relief
Due to what they have been through, they are not going to want to put up another person who will treat them in the same way. So, while being with someone who is not a match for them won’t be the ideal, it will be far better than what they have been through.
Still, if one was to take a break and to allow themselves to feel better, they could start to imagine what it would be like to be with someone who is right for them. There would then be no reason for them to put up with someone who they are not compatible with. Continue reading